Marriage ??

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Hi ladies , 
How old were you when you got married or plan to get married ? 
Me and my partner are currently 19 and we’re talking marriage, we already have a 2 year old son. We’ve been together 4 years. 
I really would love to marry him but I know our family’s would moan that we’re too young.. we hove our own home , own car and obviously a child already , we’re planning on trying for another. 
So we’re thinking maybe just getting engaged for now and having a long engagement until we’re like 23.. 
Some advice would be lovely😂😩💍👰🏽🤵

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I met my boyfriend at 20. We talked about marriage like a week or two into being together. We plan to marry by next year. By then I’ll be 21. I don’t care if I’m too young. If I’d met him when I was 18 or 19, I’d still be feeling the same way. I found my person. He’s my person. Why should I wait to start my life just because other people told me to?

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I’m relatively young myself, and don’t want to get married for at least a few more years (26 is my ideal age). Normally to a 19 year old I would say wait. But you and your boyfriend already have so much together, a home, a child, why wait? A lot of people have been married young and had long wonderful marriages. If you both feel strongly about it and are ready to commit to what it entails, I say go for it.

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If you already have a house AND a child, you’re basically married now anyway ahahah if you both want it and you both love each of her, then why not! If your family loved you enough they’d be supportive and happy for you! I’m sure they will be! But yeah the engagement for a couple years is what I will be doing because I’m 20...

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I got engaged in December and I’m getting married in October 26 this year and we both told our parents that marriage is our choice and that we both can live together

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He proposed a week ago I’m 23 he’s 30 our wedding is February 7, 2020 we been together for 7 months when you know you know

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Married at 18. Wouldn't change a thing. No babies (yet) at 21, he's 23, but we've paid off all our debt and will be putting down a payment on a house in the next few years.

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I’ve been with my SO since I was 18. Knew each other for years before. Now 22, he’s 21, recently engaged. Going to get married on our 5th anniversary next year, I’ll be 23, him 22.

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I know it sounds like a tired cliche heading that you’re too young all the time, but I’m sorry it’s only because it’s true. A teenage relationship is nothing like an adult relationship. Your mind is no where finished developing yet, things that you want now are not going to be the same things you want in a year, two years, etc. I’m 21 years old almost 22, and I’m nothing close to the person I was at 19. Now don’t get me wrong, I don’t mean that as you aren’t going to want to be with your SO as you grow old, because I believe true love can survive the test of time and maturity. But at 19 if you had asked me if I was going to get married to my SO, I would have said absolutely, I’d do it now if I could. Now 3 years later with him, I realize that there is a LOT that goes into building a marriage, and that we aren’t ready for that yet. There’s nothing wrong with being engaged, in fact that can be the next step your relationship is ready for. But honey, you’re just too young to get married

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I’d say go for it. If ready, then do so. It will also be good for your child.

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If I married anyone that I dated or remotely liked when I was 19...

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