I’ve been with 3 people before and only 2 of them have been able to make me orgasm through clit simulation (one of which was a girl) but my current boyfriend has never been able to make me orgasm and when I’m with him I can’t seem to do it myself! I don’t know if it’s just stage fright or something but I can do it fine by myself but it’s just when I’m with him I seem to not be able to! He says he doesn’t really care about it though. But I make him orgasm fine and often of course 😁🤷🏻‍♀️