I found out that I'm approx 4 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend and I weren't really trying to have a baby but we were really preventing it either (we agreed if it happened we would deal with it).

After announcing the pregnancy to my partner we discussed pros and cons that would be during our current situation (he has a good job, I left mine as I was unhappy and I'm currently job seeking). He has his own place, which he is now renting out and we're living in an annex which is attached to my parents house, this is all through choice, we are happy here and have space and land.

He said he doesn't think we're ready (I'm 23 and he's 26) and wants to go on more holidays and visit more places ect.

I totally understand all this, but this situation was inevitable given i haven't been on birth control. He thinks that it will be best to have an abortion, but honestly the thought of having to go through with this makes me depressed and seriously upset.

He said he will stick by me no matter what I decide, and we will get through it but I don't know if I can go through with having a baby with someone who isn't sure it's really want they want.

Any advice would be much appreciated!