Am I being petty

My boyfriend of eight years ignores me everytime we get in a fight big or small, and starts saying he needs time to think cause he’s unsure so I give him space everytime. It’s been a month since the fight and I’m honestly tired of having to wait for someone so I am starting not to care, we still have each other on snap so I’m pretty sure he uses that to see what I’m doing but I just decided to stop posting on snap for now, have my location off and not watch any of his snaps stories so he doesn’t think I’m watching his every move when he post. He barely ever posted and now he is all day since I stopped watching them, I don’t want to be the petty ex but then I also don’t care at the same point, opinions??