how do some of u do it??

i see a few laddies on this app "surprising" theyre SO, with bfp. me personally i cant keep my mouth shut, about anythingggg, especially when its good news!! with my last pregnancy i said to myself, ill keep this on the dl and just showcase a bump in a few months, welllllll i lasted the whole of maybe 5 minutes, honestly i couldnt controll myself i told my fam & the inlaws (only close fam) as soon as i seen they 2 lines. how do some of yall have the will-power. i wanna make it fun and cute for my SO when we get our bfp again so any tips on how to not get over excited🤔😂😂😂