Conflicted

I’m having an issue with my in laws. It’s not a huge one, but it’s a big deal to me. Me & my SO just told our parents about our pregnancy. We lost our first baby, and they all live out of town so we wanted to tell them in person. They all understood why we waited so long & were very excited for us. Here is where the issue comes in to play. Me & my SO talked about not having visitors for the first week, so that I could personally heal a little, & so we can just overall get use to having a baby around. We both agreed it was a good idea. When it came to telling our families this everyone understood & actually thought it was a smart plan. I guess our last night in town, my mother in law told my SO she didn’t like the idea & wants to come the first week. He said she was crying & really upset. I love his mom, & we have a great relationship. Yet, I feel its for the best that I have no visitors the first week. This is our first baby, and their first grandchild. I totally get where they’re coming from, but I have to think what’s best for our family. I feel extremely guilty though, and really don’t know what to do. I really just need opinions & advice. What would you do in my situation?