I'm just so pissed, I thought I'll let it out here. So my husband of 6+ yrs and I are separated. It was initially a mutual decision but he changed his mind and I wasn't budging. So pretty much for the past 5+ years, he has not been present; he is physically there but always on his phone or watching sports or playing video games. We have two girls together, 3yrs and 1yr old. He didn't interact with them much, didn't help with their care or chores (even when I was pregnant with 2nd and was on strict bedrest), he would yell at the kids for the littlest things all the time and would even push the youngest( mind you, she is a 1 yr old!!!). He was manipulative and had no regard for what I wanted, EVER!! Every decision had to be on his terms, because "[he] doesn't understand why [he] should compromise".He even used to "joke" everytime he would go throw out the garbage that he was taking my opinions to the dump.He only interacted with me and paid attention when he wanted sex. He threatened me with divorce seriously and "jokingly" multiple times. I could go on and on and on!! All this time, I tried to be patient and communicate openly about how his behavior made me feel. We've had many fights and I've done ALOT of trying and crying. And I'm finally done!!

5 and half years of being patient and trying to work it out and I'm done! So I decided to go visit family in the U.K. with the kids to get away from all of it. We come back and he's basically ignoring the kids!! They try to interact with him and he smiles at them for a second and ignores them. My 3yr old has tried multiple times to talk 2 him and he puts his music in his ears and ignores her. The youngest tried to offer him a toy, he took it and threw it on the floor, and continued what he was doing. I'm so pissed that he would bring the kids into this because he's upset at me. I dont give a f**k if you're upset at me and ignore me. But the kids??!!What an asshole!! I'm glad at least the kids are too young to realize what is happening.

Anyways, the kids and I are leaving to another location by the end of the month. I've always wanted to move there but he was in Uni. for 4 yrs and we agreed we would move when he was done. He finished Uni. and then changed his mind, didn't care I waited patiently for him to finish school and worked full time 2 take care of his ass while he was in school. But now, I'm doing me! And my girls are better off without him anyways!

P.S. he was not like this when we were dating initially. SMH.