Question

Ashley • Miscarried 8/9/17. Had my rainbow baby Janessa Lynn on 9/11/18.

So I was told today since I’m 3cm dilated not to have sex. Now I’ve had a high sex drive from the start of my pregnancy. I understand why she would say that because of penetration but what is is ok if my fiancé does more like foreplay or should I not do it at all