My fiancé thinks our sex had gotten boring and I agree although it still gets the job done and we’re both satisfied at the end but it’s the same podiums every time and the only time things are exciting a different are when I’m drinking and don’t think. Any tips on how not to think so much during sex and just let things happen?? I don’t want to have sex the same way for the rest of our lives but I’m just not into it like him and I want to make him happy but if it was up to me we would have sex like once a month if that.