Where my expectations too high??????!

Spent the night with this guy last night and it was so anti climatic.... I thought we were going to cuddle all night and a shower together and have sex when we woke up then maybe have some breakfast.But instead it was the opposite. We went to bed at 9 and I didnt take a shower till I got home....I was hot all night with him up against me. And we didn’t even eat breakfast together or anything I left as he was making him coffee. Where my expectations too high :( or I’m I just sleeping over with the wrong guy?🤔