How to address thoughts on social media

so.. we have asked for a very private/personal birth. we are not announcing to anyone when we go in for labor, but told everyone after we have her and finish our bonding and some rest, we will let them all know. of course nobody was happy with this and its becoming a daily texting kamikaze... so im trying to find a nice way to post to facebook to make my point a little bit clearer without being a total cunt lol... im not sure how to go about it but i feel like "With our pregnancy coming to an end, we are asking that family and friends please patiently wait to be informed about when Baby is here... We understand the excitement going around and cant wait for everyone to meet her, but we would like to ask that everyone please refrain from texts/calls/posts until we announce our little peanut. We are just relaxing and enjoying these last few moments of our time together. Thanks so much for understanding!"

or is that still a bitchy thing to say/do?😅