I want to throat punch my SIL

I don’t particularly like my SIL, hell my husband doesn’t even like her. He tolerates her because she’s family,their mother died 10 years ago and if he doesn’t then all hell will break lose.

Just so I don’t sound like a bitch imma fill y’all in. His sister is almost 40 years old, married to an ex con (who went to prison for stealing from their aunt and drug charges)has 3 children, yet still lives with their dad, doesn’t have a job and doesn’t pay for shit!

Their dad is MR and supports everyone in the house on his $700 disability check. My husband had tried to clean house but every time he does it ends in chaos so he’s said fuck it and basically given up on it.

Since I announced that I’m pregnant she’s tried to be apart of EVERYTHING!!!! She messages me daily asking how I’m feeling, asking if she can go to doctors appointments,she tried to tell me which hospital to use and she told my husband that she’s going to be in the delivery room regardless of what we say and so much more!

Now she’s trying to name my fucking child 🤬

She out of the blue messages my husband and says that their mother came to her in a dream and told her that I was having a boy and that his name would be Jeremiah(probably a drug induced hallucination)..... My husband told her that all the wives tales are pointing to it being a girl and we already have a name if so.

She tells him we won’t need it because it’s a boy and his name is Jeremiah..... So my husband tells her,” if it is a boy that won’t be his name,or any other biblical name because we don’t like them.”

She continued to say,” Well not according momma. You might not like it but that’s going to be his name.”

Like wtf is wrong with this woman?!? I’ve tolerated her for so fucking long but I’m not sure if I can make it through this pregnancy without fucking snapping!