Finding myself ?

Question

Okay so I’m 18 and been through heartbreaks early in the game lol , every I had broke my heart . And I always kind of lose myself afterwards be real heartbroken and stuff , so when people say I need to figure out who I am first and work on myself and find myself what do that exactly mean ? How do I do it ? Help please

Answer

It means you take some time to be single, learn from past relationship mistakes. Figure out what you liked or didn’t like, and what you would like your next relationship to be like. Determine your boundaries. Figure out what you like to do and what’s important to you, so that when you’re in a relationship, you don’t lose yourself in it and only get into what he’s into. 
Once you have a better idea of who you are, what you expect from people, and what you’re good at, you will be more successful in relationships and life in general!

Answer

A lot of finding yourself just comes with age and experience. It is not something that's easy to describe because it's different for everyone. For me, it was about maturing, building my self-esteem, being comfortable with my sexuality, not being afraid to convert religions, figuring out what I wanted for my life as far as love, career, etc. There are a lot of things that you can't learn just by thinking about them. You have to go through different experiences and grow up a bit (physically) because your brain is not developed fully until the age of 25 so your views on things will naturally change over time. Anyway, it sounds like some people are saying you need to find yourself because you have trouble being alone and/or trouble recovering from a breakup. This is something you should work on, like realizing it's okay to be single and that everyone goes through breakups. Breakups aren't the end of the world and just mean that you've not found the one yet.

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