Hi Everyone.

I'm looking for advice and perhaps from new mothers who may have found themselves in this space.

We had our daughter in February and although my husband has always offered to help and do things. 90% of all duties are handled by me for our daughter. I don't mind, I love her more than anything in the world and anytime spent with her is precious to me.

He was getting very upset that we were not having sex and that we don't sleep in the same room anymore. Which I understand.

We don't sleep in the same room because I have MS and his snoring sets my nerves in fire which he hasn't managed to resolve and I can't use earplugs because I need to listen for when our daughter needs us. He just sleeps right through unless she is hysterical he will come.

So anyway... I up'd the sex for the man. Once a day to keep him happy. I of course enjoy it to but I'm making a point of it for him.

Push forward a few days nows he is upset that I don't spend enough time with him. I politely replied "what do you want me to do, I have to look after our daughter" as I think his comment is very selfish. We have a baby one who can't look after herself and we have nobody to help us.

Am I being unfair? Is he being childish or am I?

I find myself not caring when he complains or mopes around the house. I'm just so over the puppy face when we made this choice there were sacrifices. What's worse is that I feel like my days would be better if he wasn't around me and it was just me and my daughter.

We have been together for 11 years but there is alot in the past that we have become stronger from. He cheated on me twice and we are still together. I don't doubt his love for us I'm just not feeling it anymore.... Is this normal? Is there something wrong with me?

Advice is appreciated. Even if it's a knock on me.