I'm currently 34 weeks and during this pregnancy my child's father has been extremely emotionally and verbally abusive. He would do things like grabbing my phone out of my hands bc he felt like I was talking too my friends too much, or if I'm speaking to my first child's father. He would take the phone and see what we are talking about. He even called me a hoe bc he felt like I wasn't giving him enough attention. It became too much. We were engaged but I had enough one day, packed up and left. It even got to a point of his sister threatening me. Even in that situation he blamed me and said I was overreacting. I've expressed to him that if he wants to be in my child's life he has to respect me, and his response was "that's not important" so I told him he's not allowed in the delivery room at all. He got loud yelling as always and says he's going to pitch in when he's ready. So long story short. I blocked his number and I could care less if he's apart of her life. Some family is saying I'm wrong and need to try and speak to him one more time but I feel like how many times can one speak to a person?