What do you do when your SO rejects you sexually? We’ve been together almost 9 months and I’m always trying to hop on top of him. My last few relationships before him there was no sex really involved bc I was scared. Him knowing this, I get on top of him and get all the juices flowing and he tells me to knock it off. Last week, we did have sex and when I tried again later, he told me he wasn’t in the mood. But I come home from work the next morning and walked in on him playing with himself. Is there something wrong with me? So I was very awkward about it and later on just thought okay well he was playing with himself earlier now is my chance and I tried and he still told me he’s not in the mood. What the hell? I don’t know how to bring up the conversation to tell him how I feel about this whole situation. Any advice?