How to tell a friend who lost her baby , I’m expecting.

One of my very best friends lost her baby same day as delivery this summer. She’s been recovering from the loss. Me and my husband found out we are expecting this upcoming May. How do I ever go about sharing this news with her... I know she’d want me to tell her but how... I feel to guilty trying to keep it a secret from her to much longer. Any one else ever experienced anything like this situation?? Or maybe been on the other end? How would you feel or what someone to break their news to you??