So I've lost on how to handle this situation, so here it goes. My husband always brings up my weight everytime we have an argument. He likes to point out as he says"the things he is unhappy about" anytime I disagree with anything. I feel likes it's kinda abusive to me and I dont know how to get it three his head that its mean and hurtful. Any ideas on how I can approach this matter.

BTW. I am not over weight, I just dont look the same way as I did at 19 years old when we met.