Update for “Am I being selfish”

Well today is our anniversary and nothing not even a “Happy anniversary”, we had some things to do today away from the house like get out daughter sports shorts and while at Dicks sporting good he said “ oh you know what you can buy me for our anniversary is a new hat” and I looked at him and asked what are you going to buy me and he looked at me and said nothing, so I just walked out up to the register paid for the shorts and walked out even before he was done looking at stuff so he knows I’m pissed off for what he said so the whole hour drive home we said nothing and like now still really ain’t talking he’s sitting outside drinking beer and has his buddies over while I’m inside with both our kids, so he better not think I’m going to have sex with him tonight after how he’s been treating me the last few years.