I am 19 weeks with twins and just don’t feel excited or really that happy about it... Besides feeling like crap most of the time I have so many other stressors and worries that I feel like time is going by and I’m not even beginning to enjoy and appreciate my pregnancy. This will be my last and I wanted it very much, so I just feel sad that it’s not bringing me much joy. I don’t really feel connected to babies...

Are there specific that things/rituals you do to make it a special time? To stop and smell the pregnancy roses? To feel womanly and motherly and like a fertile goddess or something?

Not looking for snark or “yeah it sucks”, just looking for concrete ideas on little or big things I can do to make this time special and joyful.