My husband and I are happily married with a 10 month old baby. He really is an amazing husband and father. He also is so hardworking and thrives at his job —BUT, I recently discovered drugs are an issue for him.

I’ll be honest, we’ve smoked weed before together. I never really saw it as a big deal and it was only once in a while. For some time, I’ve been wondering if he used harder drugs though. Whenever he would go out with the boys he would come home soooooo messes up, but more than just drunk. Not too long ago I found out he has been doing Molly. Idk if he does other drugs too, but I’m thinking he might.

He really wanted our kids to be close in age, so we’ve been TTC. I told him weed was not helping, and so we promised to stop. Well, tonight, I saw a text come through his phone that he could come pick up his weed. I am soooo hurt that he would lie to me and do something that goes against us TTC and hurts our family. I also suspect he did Molly last night when he was out with the boys.

When I try to talk to him about it he gets angry and short with me saying he doesn’t have a problem and that’s it’s once in a blue moon. Or he will say it was bc he was drunk and wasn’t thinking (which is no excuse at all)

I love him so much, and the drugs have never interfered with his work ethic or love for me and our baby.

I don’t know what to do...