I feel stupid for asking..

Hey guys. My husband and I have been married for over 2 years now, and after a not-so-successful journey of TTC, our sex life almost started to feel like a routine or like bad science experiment. It felt like we “had to” so I would become pregnant.

Anyway, im no longer on

fertility drugs

(as of yesterday) and we are just taking a pause on the whole “baby” thing right now.

So this is where you guys come in.. lol. I’m super modest & was raised modest. But I want to spice things up for him when he gets home in the morning. I want to try some lingerie, which I’ve never worn before. Do I just lay in bed with it in & wait for him to notice? Do I meet him at the door in it? Like how do I feel not awkward or uncomfortable? What do you do? Any tips?

Also, I was thinking of lighting some candles & I plan to take him to get breakfast at our fav cafe after we are done.

Any other sexy tips/advice? Thanks in advance & sorry for my lack of knowledge. Everyone has to start somewhere, right? 🤷🏼‍♀️