So my husband and I got into an argument over something so silly. We were with his family picking a date to go away for a weekend trip. Our wedding anniversary and dating anniversary are a week away from each other. I didn’t want to go away the day of the dating anniversary bc I figured we could possibly still just go for dinner or something nice just the two of us. And of course not go away the weekend of our wedding anniversary. Well we got into a big argument. Which turned into him sleeping on the couch and me in the bed. We still haven’t spoke and I texted him to call me on his break to discuss this. But in the heat of the argument he said something s hurtful that every time I think about it I want to cry. We were going back and fourth and he said “I can’t do this anymore” so I said “you can’t do this anymore but we’re trying to have a baby!?” He told me I am forcing him to have a baby. Forcing?!? We have been together 9 years married one year. Forcing!?? We’re almost 30 and have been trying for 2 months. This was a joint decision going in. Last month he was so excited and kept saying things like “does she have a baby in her belly?” And talking to my belly and just clearly excited. I’m so hurt by that comment I can’t think about it without tearing up. We barely fight. We usually have a pretty good relationship. We have normal tiffs here and there but we’re pretty happy. He is very supportive and I am as well. This comment just crushed my heart because I want to be a mom so bad and I know it he made it seem as if he wanted to be a dad as well.