Gender sadness

At first I was very exited to be expecting a girl again, due losing my first daughter through a stillbirth but now I’m quiet sad. Iv had remarks it’d be nice to have “one of each” as I have a boy or it’d be nice you to “actually” have a girl. I’m now dreading when she’s here, as what comments will I have then. I feel people will think she’s replacing my first daughter or ignore my first daughters existence. It just makes it hard to be exited at the prospect of her arrival.