Okay, so I’ve been with my baby daddy on and off since 2014 I officially ended it over a month ago (he fucked up a lot) and well I met this new guy and and he’s super sweet and wants the best for my daughter and I... treat me sooo good. Well now my baby daddy want to make it work saying he’s going to church and wants to do counseling to make us work and that I’m the only one he sees himself with...& he wants his family... he’s had multiple girls over to his place since I’ve left him, plus he’s fucked up so much in the past. I care for him and I’ll always love him..and I’ve told him to stop try and move on... but a little part of me make me wonders... what if he really is changing? What if this time it’ll actually work if we try... but I don’t know because this new guy honestly is the sweetest and nothing like my ex... I’m just scared of throwing away all those years I worked on with him and he finally becomes the man i know he can be... but then again i don’t want to waste you time all over... this new guy say he really cares for me and is willing to wait until I’m ready to be in a relationship and have sex and all that .. he is so patient with me...

opinions? What would y’all do..