I was diagnosed with a sch 2 weeks ago at 12.5 weeks. Er docs didn’t put me on bed or pelvic rest so I took it easy and put myself on bed rest.

I went to the doc today and they told me I didn’t need an ultrasound because they couldn’t do anything if the sch was bigger or if it had resolved.... like, the ultrasound would only be for my minds well being and doctors/insurance don’t care about that..... so anyways..... I’m 14.5 and the next scan will be the anatomy scan at 20 weeks..... fine..... so I asked about sex and the doctor says it is fine to have sex, that there is no evidence that pelvic or bed rest cause any changes to sch. So..... AGHS!!!! I just don’t know what to do because I have read a lot of women’s stories who’s doctors did put them on pelvic/bed rest.... so I don’t know what I should do.

I’m asking for any experience any of you may have.