HE KEPT MY WHAT?

Question

Ladies , I’ve been with my bf whose slightly older(6) for about 3 years.. last night we engaged in intercourse and this morning while getting dressed... he took my panties and said he’s keeping them as a souvenir .... 
WHAT DOES THAT MEAN ?
Is this normal? 
Should I be worried?
Is this like a trophy situation ?

Answer

If I had a dollar for every time my husband said has made comments on loving my panties, I’d be rich. 
I don’t think it’s anything to be alarmed by I y’all have been together for 3 years now, it’s nothing more than a man thing. 
He just finds your panties sexy, why? Because they touch your vagina he just had intercourse with 🤷🏼‍♀️. 
Men are weird, but I wouldn’t be alarmed. He just thinks your panties and you are sexy lol

Answer

Men are territorial. Hate to compare them to a dog,  but this maybe his way of “marking his territory”. 🤷🏽‍♀️ now if he was taking your panties and trying them on, then that's a major red flag and you should be concerned.  But because men are more sexually stimulated by actually seeing things (visual), then having your panties with him could be a reminder of how you both just had amazing sex and you "belong to him." Again territorial.❤️

Answer

Do you find it weird? Some guys have panties fetish. You should talk to him about it. 
It’s normal for some and maybe not for others

Answer

I think it’s kind of weird. Like what does he have a box full of women’s underwear from women he’s had sex with? I don’t know, I just don’t like the sound of it. It does sound like a trophy situation to me. I would actually think it was OK if it was a fetish, but the fact that he said it was a souvenir makes it weird for me.

Answer

What would you be worried about?

Answer

It’s apparently very normal for men. Do I find it normal.. no... but apparently almost all men do it! I guess I don’t care if it’s not my favorite pair and it’s the only one taken and I don’t have to hear about it ever again lol

Answer

I would just ask him, see what his explanation is.

HE KEPT MY WHAT?

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