So I have 2 biological children. I've nursed my first born for 2 years and tandem nursed the first 2 months after her brother arrived. So she was breastfed 2 years 2 months. okay so now my son is 2, and still EBF and eats solids, but has boob maybe 15x or more a day thru the night... I'm pregnant, 14weeks Pregnant. I'll probably end up breast feeding him this baby comes. so he'll be almost 3.

here's where me being selfish comes in..... I've been breastfeeding kids for almost 4 ½ years. when baby comes itll be 5 years straight.... no milk shortage here, so I'm asking if I'm selfish because I don't want to nurse this next kid for 2 years.... 😭😭😭😭 I just want to nurse for 6 months and try to switch to bottle and pump. I'm over breastfeeding, I want my flat chest back. I want to give this baby everything I have gave my first 2, but I am no good at weaning kids. so I'm trying to take the easy route with this third kid. I need to be finished lol