family won’t accept bf

Li

I’ve been having a secret relationship with my bf for a year now ( no one has met him ) , but they know I see him. My family consists of college educated ,preppy, and ppl who would probably be considered “classy”.. anyways the reason my bf is a problem to them is his social class , he’s 25 (I’m 20), not college educated and works to pay rent , also he doesn’t have any family in this country also he has tattoos and earrings which is an OUTRAGE to my family . They’re quick to call ppl trash . That being said , they see my relationship with him as an absolute disaster and can’t see anything good about it . They don’t give a fuck about if he’s someone I love and someone who’s caring and respectful towards me, they only care about material things . But we love each other and it’s hard for us to break up because they want us to. I don’t know what to do because hey seriously don’t want me with him but me and him love and care about each other