Me and my SO are talking about our wedding that will be sometime next year and I want my little cousin who I’ve watched grow up, get to take out and so stuff with, and see everyday to be my flower girl. He is mad because he wants his niece to be the flower girl and he is making his little cousin the ring bearer. We both agreed that we only want one girl and one boy to be in the wedding party but I don’t think I am being rude wanting my little cousin. I’m so upset that this is causing problems but I don’t think I should have to give in...