AF on the way or 🤰🏽?

I feel like Glow is a personal diary for me lately 😂 but anyways, I’m 9 days late! Praying and crossing my fingers that we’ve finally got baby #2, but there’s always doubt in my mind. I’m afraid of testing early, could anyone tell me if I’d be ok to test as of today? Being that I’m 9 days late today. I’ve also been having pelvic pain, mild backache, some serious cramps (NO spotting whatsoever), Diarrhea (I know TMI 🙄), moderate bloating and just an overall weird feeling in my tummy and pelvic area. They feel like wannabe flutters lol, maybe twinges. Any wisdom is appreciated ✨