Getting your SO or husband to do a Semen analysis like pulling teeth?!?

So my SO has been saying for a year that’s he is going to schedule his appointment for his semen analysis! I know that it can be hard for men to think they might be the problem! But holy cow I’m over here struggling to keep my **ish together every month and not have a metal breakdown because I can’t seem to get pregnant for the life of me! After 3 years of trying naturally!! Granted I do have PCOS and am on Metformin but my OBGYN won’t move forward with a treatment plan until he gets tested! Every time I bring it up I cry and he gets upset and says he’s going to do it and the he wants kids!

Anyone else in this same boat?!?