I feel so unimportant. so far the baby has been around all my boyfriends family, all my family, ONE of my friends & all his friends. everyone always compliments him & notices his actions. “aw she knows your voice” “aw she knows who’s holding her” “wow you’re a pro already!” they always only talk about him when IM the one who does the most. he even makes it a point to “show off,” he said it himself yesterday. I would be proud to be a new parent to but not overshadow my s/o.

my boyfriend does help out a lot, but being a mom is so much more work than being a dad, sorry to say. im just tired of everyone looking over me. not one person has gave me one complement, not one person has asked about me. jealousy? a little. but overall, I already feel like a bad mother at times, this just doesn’t help. I hate being around people because of this.

update- thank you all for the nice comments & responses. it forreal made me cry, i appreciate it 💛