Baby Showers....Did you have one? Did you actually want one? And if you didn't have one, were you criticized for it? Are they considered "mandatory" for pregnant women? Because personally I don't want one, although my fiancé feels we should just do it and get it other with, I just don't feel I should have to take on all the personal planning with everything else I'm dealing with so I'd rather not do it at all but I don't wanna disappoint him, (considering its our first child) nor do I want to have to tell the family its not happening... 🤔😩