Please comment , over thinking like always :/

My boyfriend and I are going to be doing

IUI soon . It’s been a long stressful devastating depressing road for both of us but we’re going to try it considering it’s our only option to ever become parents . I know I’m thinking ahead but if I do get pregnant should we find out together when i do decide to take a pregnancy test ? Or should I keep it a secret and surprise him with a gift . Opinions please , thank you ❤️ plus also I’m scared I’m getting myself too excited for something that’s not going to happen :(