Its already bad enough we dont have our own place yet, life had a different path for us but we are trying so hard.

My MIL literally wants to take over like the baby is hers. She will come in, take my daughter & change all her clothes/diaper even tho I JUST did it. I have things done a certain way & she disregards it. She is shoving formula feeding down my throat for her benefit. then the comments like “I go in at night to try n steal her but shes asleep in-between & they’ll notice!”

My brother in laws wife adds on to it even more with comments like “(MIL name), I’m gonna take your baby” um she isnt her baby & “aw she has pretty feet like her grandma”

we haven’t had ANY only time since the minute she was born. I haven’t even been addressed once AS THE ACTUAL MOM ONCE. I understand being excited but this is so invasive & disrespectful.

please tell me how y’all coped w these situations ofc other than getting your own space 💆🏽‍♀️