Hey guys, I wanted to know your opinion and what you guys think about this.

My husband is in basic training rn and of course we had sex before he left... without a condom. He pulled out and I know that’s not responsible guys, spare me the talks. Anyway, we haven’t been getting paid for basic training and he’s the income for the house. I’m staying with my grandma, helping her because she’s sick.

Anyway, it’s about time I get my period and I haven’t.... I mean I’ve skipped my period PLENTY of times. But I have been stressed about money and my husband plus my grandma had a heart attack. Anyway, I’m having white discharge like I usually do before my period but no spotting.

I know I need to take a pregnancy test and I will but I have to wait until the money gets in the account. I’m 18 and we didn’t want kids until I was about 24-25. I would get an abortion for my own reasons and we already talked about this. He agreed, before we can be parents we need to live our life together.

Has anyone had an abortion? Will it effect my chances of getting pregnant again when I’m ready? Like I said, He’s in basic training so I can’t get in contact with him. I can write letters but still. I just want to know my opinions, I’m not coming to term and doing adoption. Please help?