I feel like the more cycles that pass the more my body plays tricks on me.

22 months ttc I was sure that last month was our month but it wasn't. 4 dpo (I believe) and my breast are getting tender. I noticed it before today but not exaclty sure when. It's weird it's like they are sore if they are brushed against but dont feel sore if they are actually touched. I'm not even gonna tell my dh i think its a sign because it's probably not and it makes me feel dumb to keep saying I think I'm pregnant because x, y, z then not be pregnant. 🙄 Just wish my body wouldn't play tricks on me so I wouldn't get my hopes up for nothing.