So I am creating this post to basically say body trends are dumb. I have created posts like this many times here, but society has yet to see the truth.

I have a large butt and small waist (here’s my measurements in you don’t believe 26” waist, 43” hips) due to genetics and hormones. I have saddle bags, I have cellulite, I have stretch marks. It is all natural no working out no surgery.

When I was younger I was made of and called a “slut” for having this physical feature. I remember when I was younger movies and people making fun of big butts, it was seen as unattractive on many platforms. By the time I was in high school the booty trend blew up and I had people stopping me in the hallway asking me “how did you get your butt so big?” “Do you do squats?” “I wish I had your butt”.

I am glad I don’t have to hear any longer how having a big butt is a bad thing, but I am sad to here people judging women for not having a big enough butt or for having a “flat ass”. I’m tired of seeing the idea that you have to have a large butt, a thigh gap, no saddle bags, no cellulite; this is not authentic and a strange/unrealistic combination to promote.

The only thing with fitness for women I see now is to achieve this body type, fitness isn’t even about health anymore it’s about convincing women they have to try to make their body look a certain otherwise they are unattractive.

Can we stop turning our body parts into accessories and trends? It’s disturbing. We should be exercising and eating foods because it’s HEALTHY not to fit the standard of beauty. The more we feed into this behavior the more of a mental and body image problem we create in the minds of women and young girls, the more we create and allow men to objectify our bodies as if having these parts make us more sexually desirable or attractive. WE ARE OBJECTIFYING ourselves and our bodies by allowing this and following along.

Let’s promote being happy, healthy, & taking care of the body we have. NOT trying to shape our bodies to look like someone else.

Head lice