Nope. I was married to the asshole and they knew they were the side family.

If the woman knew about me I’d have a hard time feeling any sympathy for her or giving her money, to be honest. I’d probably set up some kind of trust funds for his other children because none of this would have been their fault.

As much as I want to say yes. The answer is no. It isn't my fault he made promises to her, nor does she have any claim on the money, plus with him being dead and us having no kids of our own, she can't prove he was their father.

Probably not, tbh. Life insurance policies aren’t free, so the premiums were paid with our money. If he hadn’t been spending our money on this family, as well, then we could have taken out a bigger policy, so as far as I’m concerned, what they received during his lifetime is their portion of the policy. Furthermore, I presume that if I had died instead, then he would have gone on to spend a fair portion of MY policy on them, so luck of the draw there, I guess!

🤔 reap what you sow. He's the sole provider of my household too. Maybe once the air has cleared have some funds set up for college for the children. But momma bear better go find a job or some other form of money. You placed all your eggs in a married mans basket and it came crashing down.

Nope it’s time for her to get a job.

After a DNA test for the kids I might leave some for them in a trust not controlled by the mother. Not the kids' fault.

She can get a job, and file for social security for HER kids. Not my monkeys...not my circus 👋🏻

Nope. I wouldn’t give her shit. If he wanted her to be taken care of he would have set something up for her. If he didn’t that’s her problem. Plus she chose to have kids with a married man and she can live with that choice for the rest of her life. If u make bad choices u have to live with consequences it’s a part of life.