So here is a little background information to the story about why I am so angry. So two years ago my car died one day on my way to work so my dad let me borrow one of the cars they weren’t driving(him and my stepmother had 3 cars for the two of them) and about a year ago the axels needed to be replaced so he said he would take it to the garage and get it fixed for me. Well 3 weeks went by and I didn’t hear a word from them about the car even with me calling and texting and offering to buy the car all the while my great grandmother on my moms side was dying from cancer and I was going on job interviews. So I had to cash all my savings bonds in to put a down payment on a car I couldn’t really afford at the time but needed. 3 months went by before I heard a word from them. I was angry at the way they did things and even more so because I only heard from them when they wanted to bad mouth my boyfriend or ask for money. So I decided to cut ties and save myself the stress.

Now to why I am so hurt and angry now: I decided to go tell my grandparents(dad’s parents) about me being pregnant because I’ve always been close with them and even though I was afraid to tell them(they are super religious) I figured better to hear it from me then someone else. So I told them and my grandfather asked me if I got pregnant out of spite towards my father and my grandmother told me I was selfish and ungrateful because my father wouldn’t give me a car(not the truth at all). And to make things worse they tell me as I’m leaving that they will be praying for me, I hate that phrase. My feelings are so hurt because I did so much for them and I am the only grandchild out of 3 who puts forth an effort to spend time with them. So I have decided I will not be telling them when my son is born because I don’t need their negativity around him.

Sorry again for the long post just needed to get it all off my chest because it has been making me so stressed and sick