Big Labias

Hello girlies, am I the only person that feels HIGHLY insecure about their labia? Mines are huge, actually one of them is and the other one is small. So. Fucking. Weird.

I always refuse to get oral because of my insecurity and im thinking about reducing them.

I dated someone for 4 years and I think after our 2nd or 3rd year together I let him give me oral and he loved it but I never enjoyed it because all I could think of is “omg does he think its ugly” just a super awkward/embarrassing experience. I’m 24 years old btw, I think I mostly feel my insecurities come from when guys say that girl with large labias are whores even thought I been having them like this since I was virgin and I have only had about 4 sexual partners. Any advises? Should I get them reduced or I can make this work?