Other night my SO I were talking about our marriage plans. Right we are just going to go through the court house then hopefully in the next year have our wedding. Which he decided in a Church because he’s Christian but didn’t bother to ask me what I wanted?? 🤔 anyways besides that, he mention how much marriage will benefit us some blah blah blah... he wants to marry now but then he doesn’t because of the process and paperwork or whatever. He was previously married so i guess it was a process before?

I told him I’m in no rush, but he keeps saying it’s beneficial. I know , I won’t mess up on my family and I’m ready to be stable. His words: “ trust me, The grass isn’t always greener on the other side” I’m like okay? Sure you have some experience with that. He said I’m just saying that goes for you too!

I don’t know why but that just threw me off and made me think differently but then I’m not gonna let it get to me

Just a rant.