Today I had my regular prenatal check up. I always arrive 10-15 min to my appt. You now what time i went in to the room AN HOUR LaTER! Then another 20min waiting for the midwife to arrive and for her just take her doppler machine check babies heartbeat and thats it “she said baby is strong” his heart beat was 161, she said is it agirl?” I said no, they told me “a boy”! She said oh ok. When she went in she didn’t even asked me “how I was doing” or if I “ have aconcerns or problems, she just checked heartbeat gave me the check out papers And that IT 😐. I was like whaat😮😯. I was pissed. I just didnt say nothing I was hungry and wanted to get out. 2 hours for that. Uuugh. Now im confused, I dont know if my baby is a girl or boy,why would she asked me something like that. I had panorama testing at 14weeks(I was pretty sure it was going to be a girl) Got results at 18weeks, that baby is a boy. We were all excited about it after two girls. Then at 20 weeks I had my anatomy scan, and tech said a boy, but she never gave me pic of hes wee wee, I just saw a very small triangle thingy sticking out. It was soo weird today, I was all happy for my check up and to let everything end up like is, was crazy. Hope next time I will have a good day with that lady. There was a doctor that I got to see at the beginning of my pregnancy (I liked her a lot) I asked for her and they said she doesn’t work there anymore, she left. Im sorry i just feel so overwhelmed bcuz we dont have anything ready yet. Money has been tight for us a little, and on topoc that we have to move or buy a new house and non of that has been done. Im due Dec30, hope my baby cooperates until then, so I can have everything ready for baby.