Is the considered sweet or overbearing

My baby was born at 35 weeks I planned a natural water birth and ended up doing an emergency c section. My mil has been at the hospital everyday since she’s here in the mornings before me to see the baby nicu. The nurse told me she ask information on the baby and ask to hold her and they let her knows she couldn’t without my permission. She sometimes comes twice a day. I found out my baby has Down syndrome it’s been a lot take in then so much info to learn to educate myself. And my mil told me she already created a fb event to get family and friends to walk in a walk for children with DS and went to the associate and got all this stuff.