Driving myself insane....... need advice please 😔

Joanna

So here for the long essay sorry girls...... me and partner are ttc after losing our son at 23 weeks in may this year. However falling pregnant was a complete shock as my partner was told he would be unable to have children naturally without <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a>. Well he did get me pregnant but sadly lost our precious little boy.

My head is all over the place right now. My partner is a paraplegic and has trouble sustaining an erection and rarely ejaculates. When he does I just know it’s not my time to conceive. I’ve tried tracking my days so we could hold of in the hope he will be able to ejaculate when we want him to but he was also told he had a low sperm count.

I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t know whether to suggest we ask for help via <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a> due to stresses we are putting on ourselves to make it happen again or just keep at it and hope it happens again naturally. Opinions would be grateful on what you would do in my position. As this is breaking my heart 💔

I just don’t know who else to talk to and I don’t want to upset my partner either