Symptom spotting 😕

I'm pretty sure I'm 9dpo although Glow predicts I'm 10. Took a Frer yesterday and definite bfn. Af due in 4 or 5 days. With my first I don't remember having ANY early symptoms except everything smelled weird and I felt like af was coming any minute all the time, for weeks!

Yesterday and today I've had really bad pms, can't stand touching my boobs, felt like I was about to vomit when I say down to fish for dinner, extremely irritatable, peeing all the time, tired, soooo tired... Even feeling like af is about to show 5 days early. I manage to convince myself that every little thing means I'm pregnant every cycle and still bfn. Since I don't remember having any early symptoms with my first I try to forget about it and put it all down to pms.

I also got an early bfp the first time and so always assume I would get a + on a htp early the second time too.

Did anyone feel differently when they found out they were expecting #2?? What symptoms were different?