What turns your man on?

I’ve been wanting to do something a little extra in the bedroom lately. He’s been wanting anal but I’m all like

We’ve tried multiple times and it only felt good once and only for a minute. It’s almost a turn off for me but I’m trying to keep an open mind. I brought up butt plugs and he lit up

He started talking about butt plugs and lube and vibrators. 😂😂😂 so maybe some small toys he would like using on me? And we are ttc so I’m probably gonna get preseed? (If anyone knows where to get it cheapest online lmk please 🙏🏼)

I’ve also been thinking about lingerie but I have a few sets and have tried them on for him and he didn’t really give them much satisfaction. Just kind of looked said I looked beautiful and that was that.

One time I shaved everything and made sure I was tidied up and got into lingerie and did my make up. He got home and took his shower, which is fine, and when he was done he said he wanted to watch tv and pretty much blocked me out by his show

So yeah lingerie is apparently out of the books I guess. Which is a shame because I was once passionate about boudoir and I just don’t feel too confident to do it myself anymore. (I lost a lot of needed weight. I’m 98lbs and counting 5’2) so anything else than lingerie. Or maybe I’m picking the wrong lingerie. We have looked at lingerie before but it’s never stuff that works with my body type 😒 literally anything is helpful at this point. I don’t want to bore him.