Cabbage leafs for engorged breasts??

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I’m a first time mom and my milk came in 2 days after I gave birth to my son. My breasts have been engorged non stop since then and even after feedings they’re still engorged and swollen. I have to pump sometimes to get relief but it’s like 30 mins later and I have engorged breasts. Has anyone tried the cabbage leaf trick or anything else that can help?? I’m having a melt down over the pain right now 😭😭