So my boyfriend and I have been having our up and downs but not like a lot. Let me get this where am at right now and you be judged. Sorry but this will be long.

So probably when we were first dating and all still getting used of each other I would call and text him everyday and call him a couple of hours or so. After a couple months he notice that I needed to stop calling and texting him every couple of hours or so. Which I did but during that first time of him saying that got me upset cuz I don’t have anybody else to talk to not even friends or family members. But after awhile for that I did it again calling and texting him. We both let it slide.

That was the first and now again which I was calling and texting him but not every hour just once every three hours or so. He gave me some rules this time around which are 3 calls a day, 1 in the morning, 1 in the afternoon and 1 at night. That’s three calls, and the texting is just little bit but not a lot of texting. Whenever I talk to him he says “whenever we talk,call or text you talk in questions in which you should not talk in questions and talk like this.” I told him “ahh well I’ll try my best to do so. But keep in mind if I have a question that I need you to answer ASAP am calling, if its not ASAP question I’ll text. But yes at times you don’t answer my not so ASAP questions until like five days when I had it after like 3 hours of figuring it out by myself even though it was a question for you.”

I got upset again of him doing that like I agree just like I said before I don’t have friends or family members to talk to cuz well my mom and dad are split and its hard. My friends are drugges so it’s bad their.

For now where am at my mom has text him saying he’s not supporting me or giving me love in the way am giving him and thinks we should brake up. We both said to each other she making it worse when we both know this is working for us. His brothers notice he was stress and knowing how frequently I called before this happen and also telling him its not love and he explain to them now of the switchuation and they understood. But once my mom sent a message to him he tould one of his brothers about it and he said that am not my boyfriends 1st priority right now and he has not told his Mom about it yet but she also said that her sons girlfriend is not his 1st priority right now. The only time that am his 1st priority is marriage which is acceptable but they took it in a wrong way.

In my eyes the 1st priority is bills, 2nd is family, and 3rd is girlfriend.

But my question to you all is are we making this a good thing for our relationship ??

Keep in mind also we’ve been together for two years.